Mar 31, 2026
In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host
Mark Sing walks you through the 5 steps every man must follow
before asking a girl to be his girlfriend. If you’ve ever wanted to
lock down a girl you really like but weren’t sure how to do it
without screwing it up, this episode is for you.
Most guys blow it by showing too much interest, and try to force
the relationship before it’s ready. In this episode, Mark shows you
exactly how to avoid that and handle it the right way so she’s the
one pushing for commitment.
Key Takeaways:
- Why you must see yourself as the prize before ever committing to
a relationship.
- The 80/100 rule and how it keeps you in the masculine role.
- How to let her bring up commitment first (and why this is
critical).
- The “note technique” to ask her to be your girlfriend in a way
that works.
- Why you should never say “I love you” too early.
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview
[00:00:39] – Aim high
[00:01:25] – You are the prize
[00:02:05] – The 80/100 rule explained
[00:02:45] – Masculine vs feminine dynamics
[00:04:10] – Calm down and stop rushing things
[00:07:49] – Letting her bring up the relationship first
[00:09:49] – What to say when she asks “what are we?”
[00:13:29] – Client testimonials
[00:16:00] – How long to wait before you ask her to be your
girlfriend
[00:17:17] – The “note technique” for asking her to be your
girlfriend
[00:19:30] – She is not special, bro, don’t forget it!
[00:21:00] – Bonus rule
[00:23:32] – Final thoughts
Connect With Mark:
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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering
dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine
perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools
and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and
build lasting, high-value relationships.
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